Everyone iz very familiar with the word 'FRIENSHIP' and people with diffrent thoughts give it their own definition...some think that frndshp is love,care,understanding or sacrifice urself for ur frnds and many more....yes,today m here to discuss with you some facts and experiences about frndshp that i hav realized during my college life.....
In school days there is no doubt that i hav very much close friends...who were everything to me..at that time i was so much innocent that i felt that friendship is more than family because i have good friends at that time...so this thinking remains with me when i joined college...I got seperated from my all school frnds and have the task of making new friends...u may be wondering that why i am saying that making friends is a task??...may not it be a task but making good and rite frnds is a task....but as i told you that i was very innocent i felt whoever speaks to us sweetly and happily is a good friend...one more thing that i was very sensitive at that time specially about my frnds and thats why got deeply attached with them...but this was not the same on both sides...as time passess on i felt that friendship for them is just to have people with whom you can enjoy and share funny talks about others...they were totally unknown to understanding between friends...'UNDERSTANDING' - this word says everything...if there is understanding between two people then that relationship is the strongest..understanding of words,family problems,ones feeling and many more....when ever they feel like enjoying they insists me to join them to movie,to trip etc etc...but whenever i need them they refused to go with me.no doubt they are always there with me to listen my talks and problems but i feel that they never understand that....i know there is no selfishness in friendship and thinking that i always being amiable to their decisions..they admire me saying i am very helpful,very sweet,very nice to my friends but i didnt feel this about them...???? seeing all this i realized that if everyone is happy and satisfied with you then it means you hav made a lot of sacrifices in your life...and yes i hav made but i didnt ask anything in return except some understanding from my friends...but i get nothing...and know i treat them only as friends because i have understood that one sided best frndshp can never exist....and one more thing i realized from them that one should have friends of same thinking and same status..more high figh friends will always leave you in vain.... (exceptions are always there)......also,dont have expectations from your freinds..if u never expect something then u will be never hurted...
Although my heart knows a lot about frienship but now i stopped listening to my heart as it always hurt me....so trying to mould the word FRIENDSHIP by feeling it from mind...but rite now nothing is coming in my mind about 'Friendship'..(as i am not in the habit of thinking from mind about such sensitive issues)....still in confusion because i have diffrent people as my friends in every stage of my life..but i find that school friends are only the real friends and m very lucky that they are still with me with whom i share everything.....they are my real best frends...
bbyeeeee
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